- Name the feeling in one or two words. Labelling it is the first calming step.
- Sort what's worrying you into "in my hands" and "not in my hands".
- End every entry with one small next step, or "nothing needed today".
Why writing helps when you're anxious
When you're anxious, thoughts arrive faster than you can look at them. Writing slows them to the speed of your hand. Two lines of research back this up. Brain-imaging studies found that simply putting a feeling into words, "I feel scared", dampens activity in the amygdala, the brain's alarm centre (Lieberman et al., 2007). And across dozens of expressive writing studies, people who wrote about their thoughts and feelings showed improvements in wellbeing and health compared with people who wrote about neutral topics (Smyth, 1998).
How to use these: pick one prompt, set five minutes, and write without editing. Then read it back once, in daylight if you wrote at night.
Name it
- Right now, in one or two words, what am I feeling?
- Where is it in my body: chest, throat, stomach, shoulders, hands?
- On a scale of 1 to 10, how big is it? What would make it one point smaller?
- When did I first notice it today, and what was I doing?
- If this feeling had a weather, what would it be: drizzle, fog, a storm coming in?
Find the trigger
- What happened just before the anxiety started? A message, a thought, a place, a person?
- Is this a new worry or an old one in new clothes?
- What times of day does anxiety usually show up for me? What do those times have in common?
- What did I eat, drink and sleep in the last 24 hours? Could that be playing a part?
- Which three situations reliably set it off? One line each.
Sort it: in my hands, not in my hands
- Everything I'm anxious about right now, one line each. Put each one under "in my hands" or "not in my hands".
- For each thing in my hands: what's the smallest next step?
- For the things not in my hands: what would it look like to put them down, just for today?
- What am I trying to control that I actually can't?
Adapted from the Mentis activity "In My Hands, Not In My Hands".
Check the story
- What's the worst thing my mind says could happen? Now: what's most likely?
- What evidence do I have for the worst case? And against it?
- The last time I felt this anxious about something, how did it actually turn out?
- If my closest friend were worried about this, what would I tell them?
- What would I do differently today if I knew it was going to turn out okay?
- Is this thought a fact, or a prediction dressed up as one?
Calm the body, then the mind
- After three slow breaths, what's changed, even slightly?
- What helped the last time I felt like this: a walk, a call, a shower, music?
- Five things I can see right now. (Try the full 5-4-3-2-1 grounding.)
- What does my body need in the next hour: water, food, movement, rest?
Build a calmer week
- When could I give worry a 15-minute window tomorrow, so it doesn't follow me all day?
- One thing I'll say no to this week to make room to breathe.
- Who could I tell how I've been feeling? What would I say in one sentence?
- What did I handle this week that past-me would have been anxious about?
- Three things that went okay today, however small.
- Finish this: "When anxiety shows up tomorrow, I'll ___."

When to reach for more support
Journaling is a good everyday tool. If anxiety is there most days, gets in the way of work, sleep or relationships, or comes with panic attacks, it's worth talking to a professional. Take the free anxiety self-check to see where you are, and read our guide to anxiety. In the Mentis app, prompts like these come with a daily check-in, so you can see your patterns over weeks, and the Overthinking plan builds the skills step by step.
Frequently asked questions
Can journaling reduce anxiety?
Writing about thoughts and feelings has been studied for decades. A meta-analysis of expressive writing studies found small but real benefits for wellbeing and health. Naming a feeling in words is also linked with a calmer emotional response in the brain. It works best as a regular habit alongside other support.
What should I write when I feel anxious?
Start with what you feel and where in your body, then what set it off, then what's actually in your control. Don't try to write beautifully. One honest line beats a polished page.
Is it okay to journal during a panic attack?
During the peak, breathing and grounding usually help more. Try the physiological sigh or 5-4-3-2-1 grounding first, then write once the wave has passed.
What if journaling makes my anxiety worse?
If writing keeps you circling the same fear, stop and switch to a concrete prompt (what's likely, what's the next step) or a breathing exercise. If anxiety is heavy most days, please talk to a professional.
- Smyth JM. (1998). Written emotional expression: effect sizes, outcome types, and moderating variables. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology 66(1):174–184.
- Lieberman MD et al. (2007). Putting feelings into words: affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychological Science 18(5):421–428.
- Pennebaker JW. (1997). Writing about emotional experiences as a therapeutic process. Psychological Science 8(3):162–166.